I think the trouble with artists or chefs who whine about criticism is that if you love the good reviews, you have to at least read the bad ones.
We are all naturally xenophobic.
Your kids inevitably want to move where they had their vacations when they were younger.
Because most writers have totally unrealistic concepts of how publishing works.
After a lifetime of world travel I've been fascinated that those in the third world don't have the same perception of reality that we do.
You have to temporarily be the character in order to understand him. It's sort of what they used to call 'shape-shifting.'