Did you know that, if you visualise, you can actually hug on the phone?
I'm a real 'go, go' person... I'd make myself crazy by pushing too hard. It's important to pull pack the reins a little bit and get in touch with what's inside.
I don't believe in predestination, even though I was raised a Presbyterian.
If you don't quit, and don't cheat, and don't run home when trouble arrives, you can only win.